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Discussing Going thru, and how trials test you. Also, growing in your trial to come out stronger!
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We've been there, if you are married and breathing you've been there. Anytime you are dealing with anyone else and their own individual opinions some one is bound to get upset, especially when both parties are pretty are set. Arguing, hot tempered conversations, quarreling... Whatever you call it, most people don't like to talk about it. From my experience, having a argument (or heated discussion) is a perfectly normal occurrence in any marriage. There are a few rules though that must be followed if there is to be growth afterwards. 1. Be respectful 2. Keep your tone in check 3. Pray and ask God for guidance When talking to your spouse about a topic that can be pretty heated it is quite easy for a "shady" comment to slip out. Be respectful, be kind and be loving, even when it's hard to! Don't return shade with shade, that's a good way to stifle the conversation and miss out on the opportunity to connect with your spouse. This leads into the next rul...
Just an encouraging word for someone out there today... I realize that there are many people out there that are hurt and frustrated, just like I used to be. I realize this, that life sometimes, just isn't fair. Things happen that you just can't control and why you right? I've heard it all before and will probably someday right a book about it, but until YOU decide to move on, that is exactly where you will stay. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond to it. So decide to stay right there where you are, or get over yourself and everyone else, and MOVE! The thing about moving, the hardest part in moving is the act itself, but many hands make for lite work. Go call your friends and family, the reliable ones, that you know don't mind helping you out! You know who that is too! Where you decide to stay emotionally is completely up to you. You must make a choice on who you are going to be, if you can't make a choice or your ego is too big to get over, t...
Marriage without the third ring Trying to have a marriage without the third ring will cause you to have worries, doubts and fears in the midst of troubling times, which will lead to a breakdown in communication and frustration. Having God as the centerpiece in your marriage and in your both of your lives gives you a certain ease to know that, no things aren't always going to be easy, but all things will and must work for the good of them that love God and are called according to His purpose. You have to know that both you and your spouses' goal for your marriage is to please God above everything else because God honors marriage, if your marriage honors God, according to 1 Samuel 2:30 He will honor yours. But without keeping focus on God it will allow fleshly desires to seep in and allow yourself to disconnect from that third ring, making it easier to allow yourself to disconnect from each other any time something bad happens. If God is not binding you t...
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